OK, so it's not very often that I post something such as this. I'm not especially interested in feeding gender wrangling. But the last few seconds of this youtube are lovely. What is interesting is that Dustin Hoffman refers to men being "brainwashed", and thus missing good things also (sometimes the moaning mass of women sound like they forget that whatever prevails in society affects men negatively too, and that men in themselves are perhaps no more to blame). It's worth adding though, that there is a line of men who are inclined to write off attractive women as being uninteresting as well (you know, if a woman is too attractive she's probably nothing other than a dingbat, or has no "soul"), so I think it pays to remember that physical appearance, either way, bears no relation to character.
As they say, there's something in this for all of us.